help me handle this situation

[beanz2166]

Ok here we go... bare with me..

Im getting divorced, my wife and I are fighting over just about everything. we seperated in January and she filed a restraining order on me. In february there was a "mutual friend" in my house and the police were called.. (wife freaked out and thought I was around) anyhow this guy lied to the police and said that he didnt speak much english and he was a friend of hers from english class.. actually he is another soldier. end of the story is he gets into trouble with the military police.

now since then we have talked about this and he says that he was there because she called him asking for help selling some things on ebay.

he wants/acts like we are friends, but I really cant let this night go. I dont think a friend would have even put himself in this situation. AND although I cant prove it Im pretty sure that he still has some type of contact with her...

how would you handle this??

BTW we are both officers in the local archery club.

[dch3k]

meaning help selling your stuff on ebay? what kind of "friends" are they? not sure i understand the whole story but I dont think I would trust him to much

[beanz2166]

supposedly selling some of her things on ebay. because she was hurting for money... thats the problem what kind of friends are they??? she met him with me one day at our archery range.. hes never been to my house, until that time... NOR have we ever really talked on the phone...


Also that night he was parked around back in a cul de sac supposedly out of view

[dch3k]

Your divorce really sounds messy and fortunately Ive never been through it but I would just ask him/her whats up although being seperated she can just tell you its none of your business.........I think you are very hurt and that is why all this bothers you...If you think there is something going on with them and it does bothers you...you need to seperate from the situation and not be friends with that guy and just let them be because unfortunately there is no say in it for you...get your stuff organize and settled with the divorce and just try to walk away being the better man

[Luckiduc13]

I would kick both of them in the face and then adhere both of them to a oak tree naked next to a fire ant bed, pour syrup over there bodies and leave a trail to ant bed. Thats how we roll here in Mississippi.

On a serious note, I hate to hear of situations like this. Me and my wife had a pretty bad break up (before we were married) and this brings back lots of memories. Now that I think of it......Let me go find her! LOL kidding again.

[3ddaddy]

[QUOTE=Luckiduc13;45340]I would kick both of them in the face and then adhere both of them to a oak tree naked next to a fire ant bed, pour syrup over there bodies and leave a trail to ant bed. Thats how we roll here in Mississippi.

i agree:hammer:

[eliteshooter]

wow luckiduc 13 I want to party with you seems we could get in trouble togather. Being that your so lucky I probaly would be the one getting in trouble. I think I might try out your remedy to the problem the next chance I get.